Support for Men: After Abortion & Miscarriage
Your grief is real, and your feelings matter.
Men often feel overlooked when it comes to pregnancy loss, whether through abortion or miscarriage. If your partner or someone you love has experienced a loss, you may find yourself struggling too–especially if you played a role in the pregnancy or decision-making process.
It can be challenging to speak about these experiences as a man. Many feel uncomfortable sharing their emotions out of fear of judgment. At Choices, we provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can share your story openly and honestly. Here, you won’t be questioned or shamed.
You deserve support. Your feelings–whether grief, confusion, guilt, anger, or anything in between–are valid, and we’re here to help you navigate them.
Reflecting on Your Experience
Reflecting on your experience can be difficult, but it can also help you find clarity and healing. You might ask yourself:
- Did I have any influence on her decision or the pregnancy?
- Was my opinion considered?
- What is my current relationship with my partner?
- Do I regret my role in the decision or loss?
- I’m not struggling–but I see her struggling. How can I support her?
These questions aren’t easy, but confronting them can guide you toward understanding and healing.
How We Can Support You
We recognize that men experience pregnancy loss differently, and our goal is to offer compassionate, practical support:
- Confidential Conversations & Prayer: Speak with someone who understands the unique grief men may experience after abortion or miscarriage.
- Guidance on Supporting Your Partner: Learn ways to honor her grief, communicate effectively, and navigate this together.
- Connection to Resources: Access counselors, support networks, and community groups tailored for men experiencing pregnancy loss.
- One-on-One & Group Support (for abortion): For men who have experienced abortion personally or through a partner, we offer individual and group sessions with trained facilitators. These safe spaces allow you to share openly, connect with other men, and walk through healing together.
Connect With Us
No matter your connection to a past abortion or miscarriage, we are here to offer the support you need to heal. All of our services are no-cost and confidential.
Connect with us today to schedule an appointment and take the next step in your healing journey.